How to Clearly Define Your Desires

How to Clearly Define Your Desires

You know what's strange? Most people have no idea what they want, and

what they say that they want is rarely what they actually want. Isn't that

funny? Most people, if they were honest with themselves, and they actually

sat down and took the time to look at what they desired, would find that

what they say they want is actually just a fraction or a facet of what they

actually want, and in some cases, it is the polar opposite of what they want.

Let's talk girls for a second. You know how girls go around moaning about

how they can't find a “nice guy?” Well, for most girls, a nice guy is the last

thing they want. Nice guys will buy them things, make them breakfast in

bed and give them massages any time they ask, but that gets boring really

fast, and what (most) girls really want is a guy who is confident and

challenging, even if he isn't that nice at all.

So, if girls can't even be certain about what kind of mate they are looking

for, how can we figure out what our real desires are, much less how to achieve them?

It starts by doing one very simple thing first – discovering yourself.